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Jay, who has lived in the Waukesha area for nearly 20 years, is an active volunteer who serves on numerous local boards and committees. He’s married to Colleen with three kids having gone through the Waukesha schools. He is the VP of a local distribution company and currently serves on several area Boards.

June 2007 - Posts

"Golf, Life, and Father's Day..."

By Jay Walt
Sunday, Jun 17 2007, 09:49 PM

The golf driving range could be considered a microcosm of parenting. We bring our kids into our lives at the tee boxes with short clubs and big dreams. Parents then offering advice and support as the young learn to “take their swings”. Over years, the young grow up and the advice from behind the tee mats diminishes…

My son Jordan and I went to the "driving range” today. Jordan has evolved to become a solid mid to upper 70’s golfer. Watching him go through his drills, I was taken back to the Jordan of old. The Jordan who could, at 3-4 years old, hit a plastic ball with a plastic club with a solid, fluid motion. There were early memories of taking him to the range and offering reinforcement of “a straight-back takeaway and maintaining an even tempo swing”. No matter the quality of shot, we always found something positive to share and reflect on later.

Every father who has coached his son knows the uniquely warm feeling when they execute a great shot which is immediately followed by their backward glance of pride - and their hope you saw it. They paused and waited for those parental words of support and acknowledgement which were as important to them as the thrill of a well-driven ball. Interestingly, as my son gets older, I now recognize how much his desire for approval meant to me back then. His youth prevented his sensing my growing pride in him which was deeply rooted in marveling at his progress. Then again, it is possible he intuitively knew his progress and successes as a golfer were shared, quietly, by me.

Watching him now hit at age 20, he still occasionally turns back, only now it’s with satisfaction and a “Hey Dad – pretty nice, huh?” look. And while the shots are now better (some fairly awesome), and much longer, he might not be looking for as much advice from “behind the mat” these days. But it is obvious that “little boy” who looks back for my stamp of approval is still very much alive and well.

What a great Father’s Day gift!




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Goodbyes and a Thank-You to Pleasant Hill School

By Jay Walt
Sunday, Jun 3 2007, 01:06 PM

“Goodbyes” are often bittersweet - The pleasure of having enjoyed each other’s company balanced against leaving and the uncertainty of when you will meet again. In the School Community, teachers, principals, parents and students experience these “goodbyes” at the end of the school year. This years’ goodbyes at the Pleasant Hill Elementary School will be particularly emotional.

First, a little background... Our family’s introduction to the Waukesha School District began with a Pleasant Hill school tour 18 years ago. My wife and I were evaluating where to enroll our most precious household commodities and our initial Pleasant Hill impressions hold to this day – A caring, compassionate, personal, dedicated, and great family atmosphere awaited us. It was one of the best early parenting decisions we made. Today my kids are a reflection of the educational start they received at this wonderful school. They experienced “life’s lessons” on a daily basis.

Clinically speaking, this year will be classified as a “transitional year” for the school: New hires including a new principal, several new teachers, and fresh approaches to educating next years’ students. On a personal level, we will be saying goodbyes to several people who ultimately became friends and partners entrusted with molding and preparing our children for their education journey.

And while the vacated teaching positions will be filled, these people could never be “replaced”: Ms’s. Kathy Hillyer, Gail Gaffney, Mary Fredericks, and Robyn Havican. Your passion for our children’s education will be reflected in the successes for entire generations of Pleasant Hill graduates.

A special thank you is extended to the retiring principal, Mrs. Joy Smogor. Where have the years gone…Joy joined this tight-knit community in the early 90’s. It was her first and only principal experience. I was a PTO VP at that time, and I clearly remember our introduction at a Chancery summer lunch. She voiced her personal concerns about joining and leading a staff that was this tightly-knit. Her reservations and openness were refreshingly candid. The “proof is in the pudding” – staff turnover was almost non-existent; family acceptance was immediate; and the educational process flourishes to this day. Joy, I think you can relax now; …the kids are doing fine…

My position as Chair of the Waukesha Education Foundation Board now provides introductions and insights to staff and administrators District-wide. By and large, the commitment and educational opportunities mirror those offered at Pleasant Hill. But you have to sit-up and take notice when the smallest school in the District; the school where the graduating student numbers will be diluted as ½ of the graduating students will eventually go to South and the rest to North; when this teeny little school then produces 9 out of the “Top 20” North 2007 graduating students cited for scholastic accomplishment. Clearly, something very special was instilled in these students with their early educational underpinnings at Pleasant Hill.

This year’s goodbyes at Pleasant Hill are accompanied with my heart-felt congratulations and best wishes to all moving forward. The school mission statement reads: ” We, the Pleasant Hill School Community, are dedicated to providing a quality education by developing well-rounded individuals, addressing their needs and challenging them to reach their full potential in our increasingly complex and technological world… Together we will encourage an appreciation for learning that will last a lifetime.”

Mission accomplished! On behalf of the hundreds of Pleasant Hill families who have been “touched by the magic” - Thank you!
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