The so called "Black Friday" is a week away and even with the down turn in the economy lots of you will be Christmas shopping. With that in mind here is my annual blog with some tips to help you keep safe while shopping.

• Always park in a well lit area
• Write down where you parked
• Keep your vehicle locked at all times
• Walk with authority and always make eye contact with those around you
• Be alert to the surrounding envrionment outside and in
• Shop with friends
• Dress casually and comfortably
• Leave your expensive and even expensive appearing jewelry at home
• Avoid carrying a purse or handbag if possible
• Take only the cash, credit cards and identification you absolutely need
• Carry important items including your cash in your front pockets
• Do not flash your cash
• Always double check your change
• Make sure you get your credit card back after every transaction
• Never allow your credit card to leave your sight
• Do not overload yourself with packages, make several trips to your vehicle
• Never leave packages or anything of value visible in your vehicle
• If using an ATM use one in a busy, well lit area and have a friend along

And from the Better Business Buereau regarding online shopping:

• Shop only at trusted internet merchants; if in doubt visit www.bbb.org
• Remember if it sounds to go to be true, it most likely is
• Check merchant's refund policies before purchasing
• Make sure the merchant is using a secure server
• Refrain from using a debit card, it exposes your checking account to fraud
• Always print and retain any confirmations or order forms
• Frequently check your accounts online; there is no need to wait for a paper statement

As always, if I have missed something or if you have some comments please make a comment or contact me.

If you have been to Mayfair Mall this week you have seen the Christmas / Holiday decorations are up. Add that to the fact that the busiest retail day of the year, the Friday after Thanksgiving is just two short weeks away; not to mention the fact that the ladies in my family are about to embark on the annual shopping weekend this second weekend in November; well I am compelled to write about shopping safety tips.

 

Please take the time to review the tips listed below and should you think of some additional tips, add them in the comments section or give me an email.

 

Ø      Always park in a well lit area.

Ø      Remember where you parked.

Ø      Keep your car locked at all times.

Ø      Walk with authority, always making eye contact with others.

Ø      Shop in groups.

Ø      Dress casually and comfortably.

Ø      Leave the expensive or even expensive appearing jewelry at home.

Ø      Avoid carrying a purse if possible.

Ø      Take only the cash, credit cards and identification needed.

Ø      If carrying cash, credit cards and identification on your person, keep it in your front pocket.

Ø      Don’t flash large amounts of money around.

Ø      Always double check to make sure you have your credit cards back.

Ø      Never allow your credit card to leave your sight.

Ø      Always be alert to your surroundings.

Ø      Do not allow yourself to be overloaded with packages. Make several trips to your vehicle if needed.

Ø      Never leave packages or anything of value in view in your vehicle.

Ø      When returning to your vehicle, look around, inside and out of your vehicle before opening it up.

Ø      If using an ATM, use one in a busy area, have a friend with you.

 

And from the Better Business Bureau, here are some online shopping tips.

 

Ø      Shop only at Internet Merchants you know and trust. If in doubt visit www.bbb.org

Ø      Beware of emails offering cut-rate prices, if it sounds too good to be true, it most likely is.

Ø      Check the merchants refund policies before making a purchase.

Ø      Make sure the merchant is using a secure server.

Ø      Refrain from using a debit card or online check, it exposes your personal checking/savings accounts to fraud.

Ø      Always print and save any confirmation or order forms.

Ø      Frequently check your accounts online, no need to wait for a paper statement.

 

The internet has evolved into a great tool for everyday life, learning and entertainment. But, it also has some pitfalls that anyone can fall into. As such I would like to outline some internet safety points for consideration.

• Never allow a minor child to be on the internet without direct and full time supervision. This means that the computer should be kept in a common area of the home and an adult should be able to see the screen at all times.

• Have a filter or screening software installed to try to prevent unwanted sites from popping up.

• Make sure you have all of your child’s passwords for any email, social sites or chat rooms they may belong to.

• Maintain your own identity, unknown to your child, so that you can check up on them that way as well.

• Every chat system has a way of preserving or archiving all communications, make sure that function is turned on.

• Teach your child not to give out any personal information including phone numbers, addresses, school names, school clubs, sports, driver’s license number or other identifying numbers.

• Teach your child to come to you and report anything scary or uncomfortable that they may witness on the internet.

• Teach your children that it is never okay to meet anyone face to face that they may have met on the internet.

• Encourage your children to use false names and never post or share pictures of themselves.

These are but a few items to think about, keep in mind that your best tool is your brain and parental instinct. For further information I recommend visiting the following sites:

www.ncpc.org
www.iSafe.org
www.netsmartz.org

You can also do a search for “Internet Safety” and find a wide array of other helpful sites. Good luck and safe surfing.